Tuesday, October 16, 2007

thank you

i have nothing else for the moment but, from the depths of my heart, thank you all.

59 comments:

Anonymous said...

I think I speak for everyone when I say thanks to you for everything you have done for Ellen and for keeping all of us informed during the battle. You are an all-around amazing man, Ryan. I'm still praying for you each and every day. You will always be family!!!

Lindsay

Anonymous said...

Ryan-

Your strength and support during Ellen's battle is inspiring. Thinking and praying for you every single day.

Shannon

Anonymous said...

Ryan and Family,

Still thinking and praying for you all each and every moment. There are no words to describe how much Ellen meant to us all and she will continue to hold a special place in many peoples' hearts. We are thankful that she had you to get her through this, stand beside her and make decisions for her best interests. Know that we are constantly thinking of you and hope you can find peace to.

Love
Kelly and Doug Dragoiu

Anonymous said...

Ryan,
"thank you" for sharing your's and Ellen's life with us on this blog. We learned what great strength and caring you both had. We continue to pray for you that you will find comfort and peace.

Louann Smith

Jo Ann said...
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Jo Ann said...

Ryan,

We owe you a big Thanks for taking such great care of Ellen and for loving her the way you did. You are a wonderful husband and a friend, and we shall continue to pray for you daily. Thanks for keeping all of us updated on Ellen, we all felt such a part of your fight.

Ellen will be missed by a great number of people, but I am sure not as much as you and her parents will miss her.

We will always keep Ellen close in our hearts.....you too.

Love,

Jo Ann & Tom

October 17, 2007 9:09 AM

Anonymous said...

No thanks needed, it is the amazing love of your friends and family that continued to have them keep you and Ellen in their constant thoughts and prayers.
Loving you today, and always.
Jaime

Anonymous said...

THANK YOU for allowing us to be a part of this journey.
Although the purpose of starting the blog may have been to keep all informed, you created one of the most amazing, genuine, and inspirational tributes to the testament of love and the preciousness of life that I have ever seen.

Anonymous said...

It has been our gift from you and Ellen to allow us to go along with you on this journey. You should know Ryan, that we don't stop here. We will be continuing to pray for you to find comfort and peace. You did everything that was humanly possible and it made Ellen's last months rich with love. This was out of our hands. Lean on all of us when you need to.

Jan Kotila

Anonymous said...

Ditto to everything being said here. You and Ellen changed our lives by sharing the battle, the love, the loss, and the realization of the gift of everyday life. Welove you. If there's anything we can do please let us know. Thinking of you every day,
Rich and Holly

P.S. Scarlett has a white teddy bear with a halo and wings, holding a star. She told us last night that she named it Ellen. Amazing, the effect she has on all of us.

Anonymous said...

Ryan,
You are such an AMAZING guy! You took such great care of Ellen. She was so blessed to have you in her life. Thanks for being you! It has never gone unnoticed. Your always in my prayers.
Laura French

Anonymous said...

Ryan & Family,

So many of your friends on this blog have said what I believe is on all of our minds. If I may add some more - your wife, your dearest friend was & shall always be regarded as a genuine friend to all of us. Many thanks to you for allowing us to be a part of this journey & help be a strength to all of you.

As you keep Ellen in your heart, may you & your family(s) be able to go forward with the memories & that life will have many blessings come down upon you.

May you feel Ellen looking down upon you all.

Take Care,

Barry K.

Anonymous said...

Thank you Ryan, for your unselfish sharing with all of us who looked at this blog day after day and several times each day to find comfort from your words about someone you loved so dearly. You allowed those of us who cared for Ellen to find peace and comfort in the fact she was so well cared for by you during her painful moments on this earth. You are an inspiration to so many of us. My family continues to pray for you, your family and Ellen's family Your loss is so painful and time will allow you to deal with loss but Ellen's memory will be with all of us forever because of you and this blog. Again thank you.

Anonymous said...

"For ah! my heart, how very soon / The glittering dreams of youth are past! / And, long before it reach its noon, / The sun of life is overcast."

ryan, todd, and the rest of the family, we're thinking of you.

Anonymous said...

Ryan,

Thank you.... you are Ellen's angel. We think about you all the time and are praying for you and Ellen's family. I know that Ellen is smiling over us!!!

Love,
Gina, Jared and Vincenzo

Anonymous said...

Ryan,

We're all looking forward to you making your way out to visit California for awhile. Hope to see you soon.

Dave

Anonymous said...

Ryan and Family,

Thinking of you and hoping that you are healing a little more each and every day. I know that Ellen is protecting you and guiding you to find peace every day. Hope you can find strength in knowing that no one will ever forget and that we will always be thinking and praying for you.

Love,
Kelly and Doug Dragoiu

Anonymous said...

Ryan,

Many thanks go to you! You are an amazing person that has inspired so many people. Please know that I am thinking and praying for you and the rest of the family all the time.

Lauran Katz

Anonymous said...

Ryan,not a day goes by that I dont think about you. I pray for each day to get easier. I hope you truly know what an amazing man you are. You and Ellen have touched me and my family in ways I could never have imagined. I try every day to consciously not take a thing forgranted. I will keep praying for you and for you to heal each day. God, how tough it must be. You will always be someone I am so proud to know. I know my entire family loves you, and considers you family. Stay strong. Cry all you want too. You desereve to have such a great life. Ellen would want that.

With Much Love, Ami Harshfield

Anonymous said...

Thinking about you today and always, Ryan!
Much love
K. Lanza

Anonymous said...

Hi Ryan,

Hope you are doing well. Mike and I are thinking of you.

Brunner

Anonymous said...

Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Time will help as will the love and help of those who truly care. One who does. All my best for your future - it will come

Anonymous said...

Ryan,

I hope you are well. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers for your healing..

Take care of yourself!

The Smiths

Jo Ann said...
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Jo Ann said...

Ryan,

Thinking of you daily, praying that you are finding some peace.

Love,

Jo Ann & Tom

Anonymous said...

My family is still praying daily for you. The slow journey to begin to deal with loss is difficult. May you find moments of peace each day. And I pray the moements will turn into hours.

Anonymous said...

Ryan,

Thinking of you daily. Hope each day you continue to find peace and love surrounding you.

I just received a very nice thank you from the North Canton Medical Foundation for our donation in Ellen's name. I pray that this can help others who are at battle with such a trying disease.

Wishing you peace, love and comfort with your loved ones for the upcoming holidays.

Love
Kelly and Doug Dragoiu

Anonymous said...

Not really sure why, but I find myself still check this everyday. Hoping that you are feeling the comfort and peace of God and his angels with their arms around you. Always in my thoughts.

Anonymous said...

I still check it several times a day. I miss my little El-boogie.

As you know, loving you always Ryan.

Jaime

Anonymous said...

Ryan, we are keeping you in our hearts and prayers. This has been so hard. I find myself crying at any given time. Ellen and you were truly my best friends when you lived next door. Please call me soon. Brian and Eric want to know how you are doing. Lynn

Anonymous said...

Ryan,

We are constantly thinking about you and of course Ellen. I know that she is with us all through this holiday season and we hope that your strength is helping you though this time.

Love,
Gina, Jared and Vincenzo

Anonymous said...

Ryan, do you still check this site like I do? My boys (especially Brian) miss you....... Lynn

Anonymous said...

Ryan,
Thinking of you at the holidays.

Jan Kotila

Anonymous said...

I think about Ellen every single day, morning and night. If any of her family still checks the blog, please know that I still pray for you all. Ellen will live forever in the hearts and memories of all who loved her and who she loved too.

Anonymous said...

Check this blog everyday, miss her so very much!!!!

Anonymous said...

I check it everyday also, missing her every minute :(
Jaime

Anonymous said...

i still check it too... i miss her so much...

Anonymous said...

Thinking of you Ryan, I still check the blog, not sure what I'm looking for, maybe news from Ellen like we used to get. Thanks to all for continued prayers and kind words. Aunt Connie and the Fam

Anonymous said...

I too find myself checking the blog still. We wish all the best for you Ryan in this new year. We hope you are finding strength within and from family and friends to carry on.

Louann Smith and family

Anonymous said...

Thank you to all who still check and keep Ellen in your heart.I miss my beautiful daughter....her love, energy, kindness, fun spirit always kept me going. I know I still check the blog and read the comments. Everyone has been so supportive...Ellen appreciated every prayer, phone call, card and most importantly your love. My days are a blur without my daughter...thank you for your prayers..as Ryan says..She is the sun..she shines so brightly. I long to hear her voice and see her big blue eyes and beautiful face. Love, suzy

Jo Ann said...

Suzy,

I know I speak for most people when I say that not a day goes by when I don't wish I could talk to her one more time, or see her smiling face. I have her picture on my desk to say Hi to her every day. She is forever in my heart and I will miss her forever.

My Love to you always,

Jo Ann

PS, and to Ryan too.

Anonymous said...

Suzy and family,

I can't seem to stay away from Ellen's blogsite. I am praying for you all as I know it has to be so very hard. I hope you will all find some kind of peace and contentment in your lives.

Louann

Anonymous said...

I have had so many dreams of Ellen in the past months... and always, always, she is smiling.

Suzy, Don, Ryan... you are always on my mind. She was so lucky to have you in her life, and vice versa. Ellen was a beautiful beautiful soul.

Thinking of you, Sommer (Echterling) Bradds

Anonymous said...

I miss her so much! I've had so many dreams of her and I just miss her so much!

~Ashley

Anonymous said...

Me too....Miss her so much.

Anonymous said...

Thank you for writing. I miss Ellen every minute of the day. remember her big smile, it always warmed our heart. She loved everyone. I don't dream about Ellen but I continue to wait for her, I talk to her all the time and I know she helps me everyday, because I feel like I am walking in another world and her love and spirt help me move. She is an angel of love and courage for me. I am always checking the blog. Suzy

Anonymous said...

I just read the Glamour article. Though it certainly made me sad to think about Ellen's battle, it reminded me of her ability to touch people's lives, and how she always cared about others. I miss my friend...

Lauren Maurer

Anonymous said...

I think of Ellen everyday. Her energy and smile will never be forgotten. The article published in Glamour was wonderful. I am so glad that her story can touch so many people's lives because she has definitely touched mine in numerous ways! I miss you so much Ellen!!!

--Lauran Katz

Anonymous said...

Kristin just told me about the article in Glamour. What a beautiful tribute to the caring compassionate person that Ellen was. She was always trying to give of herself, even when fighting for her own life. She continues to live bright and strong in all those who love her. Anna Hillhouse

Anonymous said...

Thank you for sharing Ellen's story. I read the article in Glamour and have shared it with my family and friends. Although she is no longer on earth she still touches lives everyday. Sharing her story may save others from this tragic disease. Thank you!
Shawna Lastoria

Anonymous said...

To all of Ellen's family,

The article in Glamour brought a tear to my eye. I have forwarded the article to many people. I am trying to reach people that I know are out in the sun all the time boating, swimming, golfing and in the tanning booths. I thank Ellen for sending her message. Even though she is not here on Earth, she has left a message for us all. Thank you Ellen!

Lou Smith & Family

Anonymous said...

Thank you for sharing your story Ellen!! I shared the Glamour article with everyone in my office and it really took them back.. You continue to positively impact people’s lives!!

I think of you and your family often!
~Julie Sandwisch

Anonymous said...

always thinking of you and praying for your family...

Anonymous said...

Thank you, anonymous, Ellen would be touched. Aunt Connie

Anonymous said...

Just an update - this month (September edition) another woman wrote in, speaking with passion about Ellen's article prompting her to see a dermatologist - and she had quite a few moles removed and is waiting on the results. She said that she and some friends toasted ELLEN GRAY the other night, for saving her life . She will always touch people, always.

Susan - what is your email?

Much love to all of you, Sommer
sommerbradds@yahoo.com

Anonymous said...

So amazing. I get chills thinking about it, I'll have to get the Sept issue. I miss her everyday.

Hope everyone is doing well.

Love, Jaime

Anonymous said...

Dear Friends,
As August comes to a close, I think back to last year. Ellen fought a very hard battle, but we never gave up hope nor did Ellen. Thank you again for all your posts. I continue to check the blog everyday. I am so proud of my Ellen and miss her more and more...she really was the glue. Remember her laugh and beautiful smile...I do. This time of year held many memories, Ryan's birthday 9/10, their wedding date 9/18, Ellen's birthday 10/2. Thank you everyone for your kindness and love. Keep her in your thoughts...she is amazing.love suzy

Anonymous said...

Suzy,

You are in our thoughts always!
Keep strong.........

The Smiths

Anonymous said...

Suzy, I think of Ellen everyday and see her beautiful face and smile. I hope you are finding peace as you make your way. She touched so many of us, all in different ways. Kristin sends her love too. We were just talking about Ellen the other day. Keep strong and know that she will always be with us. Anna Hillhouse